Monday, June 18, 2012

Getting in touch with her roots

At the beginning of June we flew to Missouri for Omar's mom's family reunion. For those of you that don't know, Pat is one of 13 children and is originally from a farm in Missouri.  How she got to Atlanta & met Omar's dad is a great story for another post. Most of her family still lives in Missouri and they have a reunion every year which can literally have hundreds of people, all of whom Omar is related to and very few of whom he actually knows their names. But don't feel bad, half the time he can't remember my name either. 

So me, Omar, EJ, Pat, Stephanie, and Erik flew out for a long weekend to visit with her family and we had a wonderful time.  We joke that EJ was going to meet "her people" since she blends right in with the Heitholds and their blond hair & blue eyes.  I honestly think she gets her eyes from Omar's mom (I know mine aren't that blue!).

We stayed with Pat's sister Cathy, who was such a wonderful hostess and made us feel right at home and so welcome from the minute we arrived!  Our first day we went to the park with Pat's other sister, Janet, and her two grandkids Jackson & Presley.  It was a great park with a fun playground, a lake with ducks to feed, and a cave to explore!

EJ and her great Aunt Cathy

Swinging with Aunt Steph, great-aunt Janet, and cousin Presley.


OF COURSE my child honed in on the biggest, tallest, rickety-est (is that a word?) slide in the entire park and demanded to go down it. No other child was using this slide, not even the 10-year-olds who were there. But that didn't stop my little daredevil.


 Feeding the ducks! 


 Jackson shows us how it's done.

 Sweet girl.

 Aunt Janet & Presley

On our way to explore the cave.



 EJ, Jackson, & Presley chillin' in the cave.


Being silly.


 Photo-op!

 EJ & Presley had a great time together!


That afternoon we went to visit another of Pat's sisters, where EJ met another cousin (Lily) who she had a blast with and even got to ride on a tractor with!  


Then we went to the Heithold family cafe, located in Halfway, Missouri. Yep, that's the name of the town. It is - wait for it - half way between two other towns you have never heard of.  But it was a lot of fun and the food was great.  The Heitholds took over the place and EJ entertained them all. 

The day of the reunion we gathered with about 100 of Omar's family at a local church, where everyone brought something yummy to eat. Mmmmmmm, that food was GOOD! EJ got to meet a bunch of her extended family and had a good time playing with the short ones on the church playground.
 Fun on the playground!

 With Omar's cousin Amy's youngest son, Braxton.

She had a good time on the tricycle.
 

 Sliding with her second cousin once removed. Or something like that. 

Tired girl after a busy day.

 All the living Heithold siblings!


 Thanks to the extended Heithold family for making us feel so welcome and feeding us so well!  We had a wonderful time and hope to be able to come back again soon.  If you are ever in Georgia, please stop in and let us return the favor!


Beach Bonanza 2012

A few months back, someone threw out the idea of doing a family beach weekend with our friends and everyone's kids. We thought it was a brilliant idea: rent a big house on the beach and cram eight families in there, with 16 adults and 12 kids. Clearly we were drunk when we came up with this idea.

Well, low and behold, Memorial Day rolls around and we all cart our families (and the ridiculous amount of STUFF they require) over to Isle of Palms, SC for a long weekend. And wouldn't you know it....we had a blast! (of course, we also had plenty of alcohol)

It was definitely chaos, but controlled, fun chaos.  It worked out astonishingly well and we can't wait to do it again next year!  The house was perfect and literally ON the beach (much thanks to Jessica for arranging it) and the weekend was full of tons of sun, sand, good food, and great friends. Amazingly the kids all went to sleep at night and sometimes they even napped!

This was EJ's first time at the beach, and from the moment she saw it, she loved it.  She also bolted directly into the ocean.


Daddy showed her the ropes.

 Beach babies!
Matteson (9mo), Hadley & Addison (3years), and EJ (18mo)

The kids all spent the days out on the beach, swimming, splashing, digging, running, and in general just having a blast.  It is a bit nerve-wracking trying to make sure your child is safe around large bodies of water, but you know the saying 'It takes a village to raise a child'....that is pretty much how we operated. Everyone kept their eyes on all the kids and made sure no one got into too much trouble.

 EJ and Olivia play in the sand.

 My beach baby.
Admiring the view.
Sarah and Anna

Throughout the weekend, Anna & EJ (who are almost the same age, EJ is about 2.5 months older) had a battle of wills over several items.  They also had a lot of fun playing together, but this picture shows the culmination of The Great Wagon Standoff of 2012.

Daddy helped show EJ how to build sandcastles!


One afternoon we took the kids down the road to the ice cream shop.  Matteson and EJ had the privileged of riding in the wagon while us lesser beings walked.

Even when they weren't out on the beach enjoying the sun & sand, the kids had a blast together.  To be honest, even though it was chaos, it was great to have so many kids there since they were all able to play together and seemed to really enjoy being together.  These are some good shots that exemplify both the chaos and the fun.

 EJ tries to impress Vince with her bucket face.
 Anna & EJ battle over the car keys.
 Vince & EJ plotting some kind of trouble to get into.
 Matteson and EJ confer on their own trouble-making plans.
 A great shot of most (but not all!) of the group. 

We were also able to get a few good family pictures!


 Before dinner out Sunday night.  Thanks Aunt Merrill for her absolutely adorable dress!

So, long story short: it was a rousing success and we are really excited to do it again next year!